esteban bai i go long as graun bilong em

Ahem, I have an announcement!

We wrapped up the second term here at St. Fidelis Seminary and, after a great deal of prayer and discernment, I have decided to return to Oklahoma.

At least for the next 6 months, perhaps permanently.  If you’ve read some of my early posts, you’ll understand why it’s been heavy on my heart to return to Tulsa and my responsibilities there.

It was a hard decision, and now that I’m just a couple of days away from leaving, I’m both filled with excitement of returning home, and feeling sad about leaving the friars and students of St. Fidelis.

It’s quite hard to put this all into words, but I know that I’m going where I’m being led.

The Capuchins, especially the friars at St. Fidelis, have become like an extended family.  They also could not be more understanding and supportive of my decision.  I’m welcome to come back to PNG and St. Fidelis next year if the situation at home is such.

I have no idea what the next few months will bring.  It’s time to start looking for work again and to see what doors God will open for me.  So, if you have any ideas ….  🙂

A consolation for me these last couple of weeks has been Thomas Merton’s “Prayer of the Unknowing”.  Perhaps you’ve read it:

 

My Lord God,

I have no idea where I am going. I do not see the road ahead of me. I cannot know for certain where it will end. Nor do I really know myself, and the fact that I think I am following Your will does not mean that I am actually doing so.

But I believe that the desire to please You does in fact please You. And I hope I have that desire in all that I am doing. I hope that I will never do anything apart from that desire. And I know that, if I do this, You will lead me by the right road, though I may know nothing about it.

Therefore I will trust You always though I may seem to be lost and in the shadow of death, I will not fear, for You are ever with me, and You will never leave me to face my perils alone.

 

 

OK, time for a lesson in Tok Pisin (i.e. Pidgin) before you go.  Parsing out the title of this post:

esteban bai i go long as graun bilong em

esteban (that’s me)

“i go” = goes

“bai” = future tense marker, so “bai i go” becomes “will go”, supposedly bai come from “by and by”

“long” = universal preposition the meaning of which comes from context.

“as graun” = we can thank the Australians for this one, literally meaning “ass ground” or “homeland”.  “home” would be written as “haus” (home or house).

“bilong em” = “that belongs to him/her/them”

So you can read this as “esteban will go to his homeland”

Thus endeth the lesson.

Facts and Features

 

With four months in Papua New Guinea under my belt, I thought I would offer up some facts and features about life at St. Fidelis Seminary and some of the things that I’ve encountered here on the campus.  So here is St. Fidelis, by the numbers and such.

Staff

  • 3 Capuchin Friars:  Fr. Cyril, Br. Jim and Br. Alois
  • 2 Franciscan Sisters:  Sr. Ofelia and Sr. Helen (who hasn’t actually arrived yet, should be here in May)
  • 2 CapCorps Lay Missionary Teachers:  Nate and Steve
  • 1 PNG National Teacher:  Michael
  • 2 Cooks:  Marcus (friary) and Victor (students)
  • 1 Carpenter:  John
  • Family members of the staff:  12 (approximately)
  • Propaedeutic Seminarians: 23
  • Spiritual Year Seminarians: 10

Major Facilities

  • 1 Friary
  • 1 Convent
  • 1 Campus Chapel
  • 1 Student Dining Hall
  • 1 Student Kitchen
  • 2 Student Dormitories which also house the school offices, infirmary, assembly hall, computer lab, class rooms, library, and storerooms.
  • 2 Ablution Blocks (showers, toilets, sinks for the students)
  • 2 Classroom Buildings
  • 3 Workshop/Maintenance Buildings
  • 4 Staff Houses
  • 1 Basketball Court
  • 1 Volleyball Court
  • 1 Tennis Court
  • 1 Soccer/Rugby Field
  • Several vegetable and fruit gardens

Miscellaneous Campus Features

  • 3 Japanese anti-aircraft guns (WWII relics)
  • 14 Stations of the Cross made from WWII-era boat propellers. (Sadly, they are very neglected)
  • Several cisterns and tanks which collect rain water from the buildings – our main source of water.
  • 1 Marian shrine (Mary’s Point)
  • 1 St. Fidelis shrine (campus patron saint)
  • 1 wooden jetty along the seashore
  • 1 car, 1 pickup truck and 1 Dyna (a large flatbed truck with a canvas enclosure – used for hauling and carrying students)
  • 1 large farm tractor – used mainly for mowing
  • 4 lawn mowers of the usual type

Flora and Fauna

Since this is a tropical environment, there are many different types of plants and animals here.  I can’t identify too many of them, but here’s what I have seen on campus:

Trees:  coconut, betelnut, banana, papaya, mango, frangipani, and enormous rain trees.

Edible Plants:  bananas, pineapples, papaya, mango, cabbage, peppers, kaukau (local sweet potato), green beans, carrots, brocoli, tomatoes (some of these have been planted but not harvested yet).  There are also several different kinds of local fruits and vegetables that I just don’t know the names of.

There are also lots of flowering plants and bushes, including orchids.

Creatures:   Last week we saw a 7-foot snake, a brown constrictor of some type.  Other snakes include a black snake that got stuck chasing a mouse into the wall of a dormitory a few months ago, and a “lazy snake” that hides in the bushes looking like a stick.  None of these are poisonous.  I still don’t like them.

Other creatures include millions of red ants (they are very aggressive and bite), and several other small types of ants that invade the food pantry;  wasps, termites, spiders,  daytime mosquitos, night-time mosquitos (the malarial kinds), tree frogs, toads, wild pigs, random 3rd world dogs, small bats, large “flying fox” bats, sand crabs, brown eagles, willy wag tails (a black and white bird that has several really annoying sounds), and a wide assortment of barking geckos.   There are numerous types of birds around that we can always hear but never see.  They hide in the trees and brush and call loudly to each other.

Estimated # of Clergy That I’ve Met in PNG

  • Number of archbishops & bishops that I’ve met:  7
  • Number of Polish bishops/priests that I’ve met:  6
  • Number of American bishops/priests that I’ve met:  8
  • Number of American priests that I’ve met who have been in PNG for more than 30 years:  6
  • Number of Australian bishops/priests: 2
  • Number of PNG National bishops/priests:  5
  • Number of bishops/priests of other nationalities:  4

Estimated # of Religious That I’ve Met in PNG

  • Number of religious men (mostly Capuchins, but also SVDs and 1 Dominican): approx. 20
  • Number of religious women (various orders): 8  (there are quite a few here, but I have not met too many yet)

Miscellaneous Other Stuff

  • Average High Temperature:  96 degrees F
  • Average Low Temperature: 80 degrees F
  • Average High Temperature in My Room: 90 degrees F
  • Most Important Feature of My Room:  1 Ceiling Fan
  • Average number of rainfalls per week:  6
  • Average number of power outages per week: 4
  • Average number of hours of TV watched per week:  3
  • Number of TV channels available: 4  (2 from Australia Network, 1 BBC World News, 1 EWTN)
  • Total number of restaurant meals since arriving in PNG: 3 (BBC news and EWTN)
  • Total number of fast food meals since arriving in PNG:  0
  • Approximate number of mosquito or ant bites:  75
  • Approximate number of Masses attended:  117
  • Usual number of Digicel bars on my phone: 2 on a sunny day
  • Weight lost:  >25 lbs (if the scale here is to be believed, which I don’t)
  • Number of notches lower on my belt:  3
  • Number of times we’ve been swimming in the ocean: 4
  • Number of new popes since arriving in PNG: 1
  • Number of American football games watched: 1 (ND / Alabama)
  • Number of Aussie Rules football games watched: 1
  • Approximate Number of Books I’ve Read (Hardcover or Paperback): 3
  • Approximate Number of Books I’ve Read (Kindle iPad app): 14
  • Approximate Number of Books I’ve Read (iBooks iPad app): 22
  • Most read genre: Science Fiction
  • Best beer I’ve had in PNG:  SP (South Pacific).   It’s also the only beer I’ve had here.
  • Local name for Kellogg’s Rice Krispies (made in Australia):  Rice Bubbles  (that makes me laugh)
  • Local name for Kellogg’s Corn Flakes (also made in Australia):  Corn Flakes  (was that so hard?)
  • Best thing that our cook Marcus makes:  homemade bread  (It’s really good – much better than I make)
  • Biggest danger on campus:  Falling coconuts – seriously!  Once one lands near you and you realize it could have hit you in the head, you take notice where you stand.

 

When a house becomes a home

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Most of the time my house feels like just a house.  It’s where I work, sleep and eat.

Occasionally though, someone will show up and breathe a new sense of life into the old place.  Such was last weekend when my very good friends John and Nadine White came into town for our diocese’s priestly ordinations.

One of my former students and their classmate John Grant was ordained for our diocese by Bishop Edward Slattery.  If I can find some good photos of that, I’ll share my thoughts in another post.

With John and Nadine came their daughter Sophie (4yrs old and my goddaughter), and Dominic (2 1/2 yrs old).

Suddenly my house became a home, with all that comes with having small children.  Poopy diapers, pee puddles on the hardwood floor, broomsticks that became horsies, late night struggles to get the kids “down”, toast with the crust cut off, reverse psychology, and general pandemonium.

The photos above are just a small sample of the energy and excitement that now makes my house seem so quiet now that they’ve gone home.

Most of the above are photos the kids made themselves when they found out that my iPad has Photobooth on it.

Art from Chaos and Frivolity.

Thank God for children and good friends who share theirs with me.

Where did the week go?

Does this happen to you?  Do you get to the end of the week and wonder where it went?

I’m not much of a blogger obviously, so I’m going to resist the shame of having two consecutive posts called “7 Quick Takes.”  So, pretend that this is something else.  (wink, wink, nudge, nudge)

A.

I have a boarder.  My “godson” Alex is staying with me for a few months as he transitions into the next phase of his life.  He’s not technically my godson, but I did sponsor him when he joined the Church five years ago.   It’s fun having him here and he’s promised to do all the mowing.  Deal!

B.

The mail just arrived with an invitation to the priestly ordination of one of my former students from the Univ. of Tulsa Newman Center.   Rev. Mr. John Grant will be ordained on June 30th by Bishop Edward Slattery at Tulsa’s Holy Family Cathedral.  You should check out his website:  frjohngrant.com.  His “wishlist” on Amazon.com is also interesting!  Just what do you get a newly ordained priest?

This is very exciting and I hope to go. He’s going to be such a blessed asset for our diocese.  Unfortunately, it’s also the wedding day in Denver for a very close friend.  I’m conflicted.

C.

I recently re-committed to an hour each week at our perpetual adoration chapel.  Tuesday morning at 1am.  I’m finding it difficult to adjust to this new timeslot.   A few years ago, I  had a 4am Thursday morning slot, which I found much easier to manage from a sleep perspective.

This week, rather than taking a nap beforehand, I just stayed up for it.  It worked out much better and I was more focused and alert.

I like having this commitment and would encourage anyone to give it some consideration.

D.

I’ve signed up for a retreat.  I’ve worked many, many retreats for college students, but this is the first personal one for so long that I can’t remember the last one.   It’s a two day drive to get there, but I’ve never been one to turn down a roadtrip.  Besides, I’m a proponent of having time before and after retreats as transition periods.

E.

I had the best time last Sunday afternoon.  For Mother’s Day, another “godson”, if I can still use that term, asked me to take some photos of his wife and kids at Tulsa’s Woodward Park.  The kids were great, so darn cute, and I really like spending time with them.   I’m definitely not a professional photographer, but I do think some of the shots came out well.  I really need to practice more with my camera.

F.

Most of the week’s work was focused on the upcoming Catholic New Media Conference.  We announced the speakers for the International Catholic Bloggers’ Summit, which is the theme for the final day of the 3-day conference.  It’s going to be great fun and so many good things are happening with it.  Another big announcement is coming, so keep an eye out for it.

G.

I rediscovered the blog of another former Newman Center student.  Her name is Sarah and she’s got a great sense of humor and a quick wit.  If you like perusing other people’s blogs, check out Just a Brown-Eyed Girl.

That’s it!  I’ll really try to find something interesting to write about next week.  Heaven forbid that I have to resort to politics.  We both really don’t want that to happen!

 

The Fog of Spring

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I literally have tears in my eyes as I write this.

Why?  Because spring has arrived in Oklahoma!  After the drabness of the winter months, we are rewarded with all the beautiful colors of reemergent life all around us.

The Bradford Pear trees are already in full bloom.  The forsythia and redbud trees are just about ready, another week perhaps.   By Easter, we should be awash in the whites, pinks, and reds of azaleas.

As long as you’re good at dodging tornadoes, this is truly the best time to be in Oklahoma and I do so look forward to it.

Except for one thing.

You see the tears in my eyes are not only for the joy of spring.    I have allergies.

My life has not been the same since one clearly remembered day when I was 15 years old.    That day, in late summer of my sophomore year of high school, my body decided to add something new to the experience of being a teenager.

Sneezing, itching, tearing eyes, and a running nose became irresistible parts of my spring ritual.

See this photo?

It isn’t me, but it could have been.   This is the “scratch test” allergists do to see what pollens, danders, molds, or foods you might be allergic to.

I’ve had this test done several times, all with the same result.

I have been known to set a clinic’s record for the number of things reacted to.  I think the last test showed reactions to 120 different things, mostly tree and grass pollens.  Yay!  (Note:  don’t let your big sister, the nurse, administer the “scratch test.”  Let’s just say she took compensation for any little brother annoyances I might have caused her.)

Meet my arch-nemesis.   This is Juniperus virginiana, more commonly known as red cedar.  This little devil, is not only invading Oklahoma at an alarming rate, it’s a prolific generator of pollen that is carried on the wind to my vicinity from all directions, mostly from Texas.  It’s the precursor of things to come, usually arriving in mid-February.  It’s awful awful stuff.

My only defense against this spring onslaught, only to be repeated by its corollary in the fall, is medication.

The price I pay for the beauty of spring is the self-induced fog of antihistamines.  Flonase, Zyrtec, and sinus blasting nasal pepper spray are my weapons of choice.  I’ve experimented with them all.  I even gave myself allergy shots back in high school (they don’t let you self administer them now – too much liability).

These particular medications work for me, but occasionally, I find myself staring into space, my mind-clutch slipped into neutral by the combined effect of the antihistamines.  It also keeps me indoors on beautiful days, especially when the wind is up.

It’s the price I have to pay to enjoy the beauty of spring, but bring it on!  Summer beckons and I’ll only have to deal with ticks, chiggers, and mosquitos!

 

Once Upon Our Lives (1967-1969)

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It’s time for another installment of family photos from my childhood.  There are probably too many in this batch but this pretty much wraps up our journey through the 50’s and 60’s.

I like these photos because they are a good look at the special occasions in our lives.  Birthdays, patio parties, little league, etc.  Nothing but the good times, the happy times.

I’ve added some captions which I hope are helpful.  If you watch the slideshow, they should be self-explanatory.    Times gone by.

I’m mourning a bit to reach this end point of dad’s collection of photos.  There are only a few left, and then we entered the age of Instamatic cameras and flashcubes.  (They haven’t aged well).

As the 7o’s hit, things started to change, in our family, in our society, and much more.  If you lived through the early 70’s you know what I mean.  We’ll see if I’m brave enough to find, scan and post those pictures.

In the meantime, enjoy this little look back at our family as we wrap up our time in Midland Texas and begin the next move that will take us to Tulsa, in 1970.

iPilgrim Podcast

A few years ago, my good friends Jim and Tom, and I spent three weeks walking the pilgrimage route in Spain call the Camino de Santiago de Compostela.

I’ve been lucky recently to participate as a commentator on a brand new podcast about the Camino called the “iPilgrim Podcast.”

Give it a listen at http://www.ipilgrimpodcast.com or subscribe to it through iTunes.

Ladder Epiphany

Yesterday, I fell off a ladder.  Yep.

I felt really foolish, but luckily it was a short fall and I wasn’t injured in the slightest way.

At least I learned something I never knew.

I am in the process of painting the outside of my house.  It has needed it for quite some time, but the recent repairs done after the BIG TREE fell on my roof last May has necessitated the project before winter comes.

Being predominantly left-handed, my left arm and wrist have been taking the brunt of the workout as I slowly make my way around the house, paint brush in hand.

So yesterday, I thought I would see if I could make my lazy right arm do its share of the work.  Bad idea it turns out.

Who knew that working left handed most of my life has  developed a certain muscle memory when it comes to balance.  Ladders have never been my favorite playground, so it was a surprise to learn that my sense of balance immediately departed as I tried to accomplish the simple task of slapping on some paint right armed/handed.  That was the first mistake.

The second mistake was doggedly trying to overcome this deficiency while standing several feet above ground level.

No harm done.  Lesson learned.  Mr. Lazy Right Arm will have to do his share of the work only when both feet are firmly planted on the ground.

How much longer til winter?

Open Road

"No Man's Land" - Oklahoma Panhandle

I love traveling.  In particular, I love driving.  I especially love driving the open roads of the Llano Estacado and the high mountain deserts of West Texas, New Mexico and Arizona.  This is where I grew up.  If you’ve never driven those wide empty plains and experienced the sense of freedom that comes with it, it is hard to explain the attraction.

The photo above is from my most recent trip westward, through the Panhandle of Oklahoma and into the northeastern corner of New Mexico.  The empty highway, void of heavy traffic, induce a meditative state, yet still alert, that allows my mental processes the freedom to explore all sorts of new possibilities, new explanations, as well as those unspoken fears and questions found deep down inside.

I imagine this is what contemplative prayer is like.  I’ve never quite been able to accomplish this same level of mental freedom or release in prayer.  It is elusive and frustrating.  Usually, my thoughts are disordered, somewhat frantic in nature and undisciplined when I’m trying to be meditative or contemplative.  I’ve been told that I can learn to do this better with practice.  The open road, perhaps paired with the mental act of driving, is a better environment for me.

I have loved the open road ever since I learned to drive the summer after my 16th birthday.  I have undoubtedly driven hundreds of thousands of miles, yet my thoughts often go back to my first experiences of driving on the Llano Estacado in and around Hobbs, New Mexico.  The long straight roads, with the warm air blowing through the open windows, have ever since been my favorite kind of solitude.  I must do it more often.

My aunt says that we have “gypsy blood” because everyone in my family is much like me.  At any given moment, at least one of us is traveling somewhere.  Perhaps you, dear reader, are like me, itching to go at a moments notice, to be somewhere other than “here.”

Although at times it can seem like a curse, when responsibilities and the needs of others take precedence, there is always a sense of excitement and anticipation when the next journey approaches.  The next several months are offering several opportunities.  Some familiar places to visit and some new ones.

I can hardly wait!

Remembering Hershey

Hershey

I am sad today.

I just spoke with my brother and learned that their 13-yr old border collie passed away in the night.  Her name was Hershey and she was an awesome dog.  Sweet, loyal and brilliantly intelligent as only border collies can be.

I know it’s not unusual to say this, but my family has always had a strong attachment to its dogs and Hershey was a particular favorite among all of us.  It was heart wrenching to listen to my brother express his grief for an animal that was definitely an integral part of their family.  My brother’s kids, two sons and a daughter, have not heard this news as I write this.   It will be terrible for them too.

St. Thomas Aquinas, I believe, said that all living things have a soul, but only humans have eternal souls.  It comes from our unique relationship with God and that we were made in His image.   That is an awesome gift that we all fail to fully appreciate.

Perhaps there is still a special place in heaven for those animals that touch our lives.  It is obvious that they have touched our souls at least as much as we have touched theirs.

Bye-bye Hershey.

A Tail of Chloë

“Steven?!?”
“Yes?”
“Can you come over?  Chloë got out and ran down to the end of the street and I can’t get her!”

My aunt Joanne is a wonderful person, a widow in her early 80’s, who still lives alone in the house she and my uncle bought in the early 70’s.  Just like her sister Mary, my mother, she has a penchant for attracting the strangest assortment of animals as pets.  She has the heart of St. Francis and has found her latest adoptees  from Animal Rescue groups who appear on the local morning news programs from time to time.  Chloë is the latest and most unique of all her pets.

Knowing that my aunt would be a little frantic at the thought of her dog running around the neighborhood, which is bounded by very busy streets, I rushed to her house to help the Search and Rescue teams that had no doubt been called into action.

My aunt was not at home when I arrived, so I knew that she was cruising the area in her Toyota minivan, trying to at least keep an eye on the dog until I managed to find them.  Trying to imagine which way the dog would run when set free, I circled the neighboring blocks around my aunt’s house to no avail.

Finally, turning a corner in the direction I least expected, I found my aunt’s van pulled to the curb, along with one of her neighbors, and an unlucky pair of plumbers that had been deputized into the posse.  Little Chloë was cornered under a car in someone’s carport still managing to stay out of reach of neighbors and plumbers alike.

Meet Chloë

Chloë

As I said before, Chloë came to my aunt from Animal Rescue.  So, what sort of animal is she that she managed to stage her own spring break-out and elude being captured by five grown adults?

Meet Chloë, a 10 lbs Japanese Chin, with one eye and four teeth.  She unfortunately came from the awful confines of a puppy mill and was so traumatized that she usually cowers under the bed.  But not on this day!  Today, Chloë broke free and ran the neighborhood just like the big dogs.

Eventually, Chloë was captured and returned home where she parked herself in the corner of the kitchen with a knowing gleam of excitement in her one remaining eye.  I imagine that some instinctual desire to feel the sun and wind in her face was at least momentarily satisfied.

Well done Chloë!  Please don’t do it again any time soon.

My clothes still smell like wet dog.

(here’s a shout out to Mullins Plumbing whose employees were neighborly and helped in the great search)

17,896 Days

Me on a blanket

Here I am on a blanket in my baptismal robe & booties. How cute!

Today is my birthday and according to calculations, I have been alive for 17,896 days.  That seems like an enormous amount of time, and yet, I still feel like I’m just getting started.   I’ve been avoiding making a “bucket list”, but there are still lots of things that I want to do.  I’ll ponder that for another post.

Wait!  Don’t leave just yet.  Since I’m a history buff, here are some interesting things that have happened on this day, February 25th:

  • Pope Pius V excommunicated Queen Elizabeth I of England for schism and persecutions of English Catholics during her reign.  Pope Pius V was also the pope who named St. Thomas Aquinas a doctor of the Church and created the alliance that defeated the Ottomans at the famous Battle of Lepanto. (1570’s)
  • George Washington held his first cabinet meeting in 1793 and we’ve been trying to understand why ever since.
  • In 1947, the state of Prussia ceased to exist, apparently, it was under too much prussia.
  • Ferdinand Marcos flees the Philippines during the People Power Revolution. Corazon Aquino becomes the first female president.  Marcos was very surprised by all this.  He thought he was a shoe-in, not realizing that his wife, Imelda, actually had all the shoes.

Apparently, lots of famous people have been born on this date.   Here are some of the ones that I’ve heard of:

Sadly, there doesn’t seem to be any saint for this day on the Roman calendar.  I guess it leaves room for me.  Of course, that would mean I would have to do something saintly and actually die on my birthday.

Today’s Gospel reading includes this speech from Jesus to his disciples:

“Ask and it will be given to you;
seek and you will find;
knock and the door will be opened to you.
For everyone who asks, receives; and the one who seeks, finds;
and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened. (Mt 7:7-12)

This is good scripture for me.   I am always seeking and contentment always seems just out of reach.  Would you agree, dear reader, that this is just part of the human condition?

Here are some things planned for the next year:

  • March, 2010:  Travel to the state of Georgia for business and family.
  • April, 2010:  Travel to Haiti on parish mission exploratory trip.
  • August: 2010:  Travel to Boston for the Catholic New Media Celebration
  • October: 2010:  Travel to St. Louis for my friend Tom’s wedding.

This doesn’t seem like near enough adventure for this year. I hope to add to this list.  I’d like to plan a real vacation, perhaps to one of the states I haven’t visited yet, like Hawaii or Alaska.  Stay tuned.

OK, enough of this rambling nonsense.  Thanks for reading.  Send comments.

Reefer Madness -or- How to tie your shoes

When I saw this video, I knew I would have to blog about it.  My last couple of entries have been rather serious in tone, so I thought something lighter was in order.

One of the most endearing memories I have of my dad is his teaching me how to tie my shoes.  I was in kindergarten and needed to be able to show Sr. Stephana I could tie my own shoes and thus earn the coveted gold star on my report card.

It seems that I tie my shoes backwards from my dad.  I clearly remember him sitting in front of me and showing me his tying technique.  I apparently mimicked him perfectly but in mirror image.  Nonetheless, it has been working for me all these years.

After watching this video though, I was a little bit paranoid about my shoe tying ability.  Was I a granny or a reefer?

I am happy and relieved to announce that I’m a reefer and shall continue to have tight shoe knots.

My Life as Sisyphus

Sisyphus

Sisyphus

“Sisyphus?” you ask.  Yep. Sisyphus.  It’s kind of fun to say isn’t it?

So Sisyphus was a bad guy in Greek mythology and Zeus condemned him to roll a huge boulder up a hill, only to watch it roll back down, and to repeat this throughout eternity.  An existence of utter frustration.

My life has kind of felt like that for the past 1 year + 1 day, since the day I was laid off from my beloved job as a campus minister and I found myself face to face with the most uncertain of futures.  The first time in my adult life where I didn’t know what the next move was.

But in all things, God’s grace has been my companion.  Yep, I’m sure of that.

  • For all the times that I’ve felt sorry for myself, there’s been a friend to kick me in the butt and tell me to get over myself. (I believe the term used was “Mr. Crabby Pants,” which I still find rather endearing!)
  • For all the dashed hopes of finding the right next job, there’s always been the new hope of another opportunity.
  • For all the times of loneliness and fear, there’s been an encouraging email, an invitation to lunch, or just a friendly hello.

I could go on, but you get it.  I know there are lessons to learn in all this and one day I hope that I can put it all into proper perspective.

So tomorrow on 1year + 2days, I’ll still get out of bed, I’ll still look for that next opportunity, and I’ll follow wherever that hope which comes from God’s grace leads me.  I kind of hope that it’s the road less traveled.  I guess I’ll just have to wait and see.

One day, I’ll get that rock to the top of the hill and it will stay.